Many people do not know how to appropriately handle a person who may be having suicidal ideation
Original Source: www.mashable.com
BY CHIRLANE MCCRAY
One of the pillars of our program is (MHFA), a course first developed in Australia to teach ordinary people to identify, understand, and respond to signs of mental illness and other distress. To date, we have trained 75,000 people and plan to train 250,000 by 2021. People who have taken the course know, for instance, that you don’t increase the risk for suicide by asking someone if they are thinking of hurting themselves.
One of the pillars of #ThriveNYC is @MHFirstAidUSA, a course first developed in Australia to teach ordinary people to identify, understand and respond to signs of mental illness and other distress. To learn more or find a training near you, visit: https://t.co/lzARLasE1W. pic.twitter.com/1BW1D14TCb
— Chirlane McCray (@NYCFirstLady) November 18, 2018
Mavis Flowers, who took the training in the last year or so, discovered that her best friend planned to kill herself by overdosing on pills, only after Mavis took her to the hospital for what seemed like a panic attack.
“If I didn’t have the Mental Health First Aid training, I wouldn’t have known she needed to go to the hospital,” Flowers said. “And I would never been able to ask her if she still had a plan, after leaving the hospital.”
“The training has helped me have conversations with her about going to a therapist and having a support system,” said Flowers, a 52-year-old mother and health care consultant from the Bronx. “It has helped me find ways to support her — I’ll say ‘OK, we have to talk about this to your therapist.’” Flowers herself has been certified to conduct MHFA trainings.
After taking the MHFA course and learning from other Thrive resources, a Staten Island family was able to understand the bipolar disorder of a young relative. He had been labeled “bad” for years, bullied by peers, and abandoned by his mother. He has since received proper medication and is college-bound.
When it comes to suicide, we need many ways to break the cycle of pain for many populations, from schoolchildren to seniors, as well as people with serious mental illness or those facing unexpected crisis.
For example, in our schools, staff members can take advantage of training to identify children in emotional distress. A “health promotion game” called Age-tastic is used in senior centers, allowing licensed clinicians at the centers to assess mental health in a fun way as seniors take stock of their finances and physical health.
A Thrive team for veterans hands out information cards, pens, and refrigerator magnets at police precincts, community centers, and on the streets to guide veterans to free counseling.
With the connections and resources of 12 major national African-American service organizations, we created Brothers Thrive and Sisters Thrive to reach underserved African-American communities through therapeutic “Listening Sessions” and MHFA trainings. We just started a similar effort called Latinx Thrive, with the help of elected officials and others, to serve Latinos and Latinas.
— Chirlane McCray (@NYCFirstLady) November 9, 2018
Because of historic and continuing inequity and discrimination, those communities of color need special assistance. Compared to white communities, they too often experience worse mental health outcomes, less access to care, and fewer culturally competent caregivers.
Yonghwa and Katie Ha, who are Korean-American, created the Esther Ha Foundation in Queens to increase mental health understanding in the Korean community. They did so to honor their daughter, Esther Ha. Esther lived with depression and died by suicide at age 21. Through ThriveNYC, the foundation has now trained more than 400 staff and community members in MHFA.
As the first to hear what is really going on in the people’s lives, many faith and community leaders have joined the movement to educate and eradicate stigma by hosting MHFA trainings in their houses of worship and community centers. Those leaders report more people talk openly about everything from marital woes to suicide.
Since 2016 a growing number have participated in a dedicated weekend each May to explicitly address mental health. That effort began in New York. This year, 2,500 houses of worship — representing every major religion — did so in all 50 states.
— Chirlane McCray (@NYCFirstLady) November 5, 2018
It is on all of us — individuals, government leaders, and educators — to prevent suicide. As voters, we can demand a public health approach to mental health and vote for candidates who vow to make mental health services a priority. Teachers can help children learn to name and manage their emotions to build emotional resilience. We can all improve our mental health literacy and support one another in navigating life’s inevitable challenges.
As the founder of the which has brought together nearly 200 mayors and thought partners in all 50 states to share best practices and advocate for federal support, I support a more integrated behavioral health system for all Americans. Instead of just bemoaning the suicide rate, leaders in every sector in every city can explicitly acknowledge that people cannot be healthy without good mental health. City governments, in particular, can make a commitment to ensure that their policies take mental health into consideration.
Mental health is the ultimate intersectional issue, affecting how we learn, love, and use our skills and talents. There is no ONE solution to preventing suicide — there are MANY. Tell your story and the stories of loved ones. Hold elected officials accountable. Fight for our lives.
As first lady of New York City, Chirlane McCray fights for underserved communities and created ThriveNYC, the most comprehensive mental health plan of any city or state in the nation. She also spearheads the Cities Thrive Coalition, with more than 200 mayors and thought leaders from all 50 states, advocating for a more integrated and better-funded behavioral health system.
If you want to talk to someone or are experiencing suicidal thoughts, text the Crisis Text Line at 741-741 or call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. Here is a list of international resources.